Originally this started happening when I re-installed steam and didn't set my internet speed properly and would get kicked off the servers, with the above problem. Which is why I think I am flooding the NAT table, however looking into the system and security logs I can't seem to find anything that points to this happening.
I little more info:
I use a single cable from the gateway to my 24 port gigabit switch which then goes to my wireless AP, printer, and other systems.
Now everything that is WIRED on my network has a static IP assigned to it
i.e.
Gateway: 192.168.1.1
Main Computer: 192.168.1.2
Wireless AP: 192.168.1.3
and so forth so they correlate to the ports on the switch and I only need to configure port forwarding once.
Everything that is WIRELESS is assigned via DHCP since I don't have many port forwarding needs on my wireless systems
anyone now how I can prove this theory, or am I overlooking something?
obviously networking isn't my strong suit, I know how to run cable and connect equipment but know nothing about the technical stuff